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Four Ways to Raise a Critical Thinker: Teach Your Child How to Think, Not What to Think

Inside: Four ways to help your child develop critical thinking and metacognition so they can think for themselves, get unstuck, and be a flexible problem solver. These are foundations of self-resilience. Also included are books that teach children about thinking, plasticity in the brain, and metacognition.

When I was teaching college students I was often surprised at how little they knew about the process of thinking.

I found that my students had a lack of self-awareness when it came to their own thoughts, how the brain works, how to learn, and how to study.

I was lucky to be at a college where the psychology major was designed around teaching critical thinking. The focus wasn’t on facts and figures, but on how to make reasoned decisions — to think critically.

We didn’t teach students what to think, we taught them how to think.

Girl joyful reading an inspirational book.

The ability to think about thoughts is called metacognition and it develops across your lifetime.

When children move from egocentric thinking to being able to take another person’s perspective, they are just beginning to develop metacognition.

The next step is realizing that they can change their own thinking. When they get frustrated and stuck on a problem they will have to change how they are thinking about that problem to solve it.

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Teaching Children About Metacognition Helps Them Develop Self-Resilience

Being able to change one’s perspective to solve a problem is a life skill. The life skill of getting unstuck is vastly underrated. To be able to approach a problem in different ways is true innovation — a trait we prize, but we don’t focus on how it develops. We just assume some people have this ability, this innate talent.

In truth, we can raise children who are aware of their thinking, we can encourage our children to engage in flexible thinking and innovative thought — it is not something children are just born with, it is something we can help them develop.

Let’s raise children who are critical thinkers — who do not simply accept something put before them. That when faced with a “truth,” they have more questions than answers.

Let’s raise children who are innovators . Children who try something in a different way, a new way, maybe a better way.

Let’s raise children who are able to think for themselves and who accept others who think differently from them. Who recognize that different ways of thinking will often bring people together to solve a problem.

To do that, children need to understand the process of thought — to be able to think about thinking — metacognition.

Principles of Critical and Flexible Thinking

  • How I think might be different than how someone else thinks.
  • The brain grows and changes. It is plastic.
  • Some of the best discoveries have happened because of mistakes.
  • There are many ways to solve a problem.

1. When your child asks you how or why, you answer with, “what do you think?”

I am amazed by the theories my son has come up with for how things work. Help your child test their hypotheses with a hands-on project or a way to explore their idea. This weekend we built a sling-shot for shooting our dog’s tennis balls in the yard– only the sling doesn’t quite work, yet.

One of our favorite hypothesis testing games, when my son was younger, was  will it float or sink? Simply fill up a bowl with water and have your child guess if different things will float or sink. Ask them why they believe their hypotheses and help them test their ideas and revise their theories.

A general rule of thumb — every time your child asks a “why” question, ask them what they think. Then have a conversation. Children go through the “why” phase for a reason. It is up to us to ask them the same question — why –“ why do you think that?”

2. Let Them Do it Themselves

“When you teach a child something you take away forever his chance of discovering it for himself.” Jean Piaget

It is so hard not to step in when they struggle. I catch myself doing this all the time with little things. But if we do it with the little things, they expect it for the big things. I have to consciously make myself step back.

And if my son does ask for help, I try to help him with the next step instead of solving the whole problem. This philosophy works from everything from opening a yogurt to math homework.

3. Encourage Thinking in Different Ways

When your child is stuck on a problem suggest other ways of thinking about it. Say, “Let’s think about it in a different way.”

I remember when my son was 3-years-old and used to get so frustrated with his blocks. I would hold myself back and more often than not, he would persevere.

But on one particularly frustrating tower building session, my husband said, “which block do you think it would be best to start with to make your tower stronger — this block standing up or this wider block laying down? Which one gives a better foundation?”

And ever since that day, my son thinks carefully about the base or foundation of every single one of his structures. He thinks critically about how to build a strong structure.

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4. Read Books about the Brain, Thinking, Problem-solving, Mistakes, and Perseverance

Books are an amazing way to open the window to metacognition. Any book that shows what the character is thinking or goes through the process of solving a problem, ideally in a unique way, will make an impression on your child and promote critical and innovative thinking.

I think too often our children get the message in school that there is only one correct answer and that conformity is the rule.

Then one day, real-life happens and suddenly there will no longer be a “right” answer.

Reading books that give different messages about thinking is so important to counteract that pressure on perfection, conformity, and the single right answer.

Books that Inspire Your Child to Become a Problem Solver, a Critical Thinker, and Change the World

The girl who thought in pictures: the story of dr. temple grandin.

I love this book for so many reasons. It is a great book about diversity and also overcoming hard situations in life. But it also showcases how people may think differently — how brains and brain functioning is diverse, “Then, little by little, though sometimes she balked, special teachers helped Temple, and one day she talked! And that thing with her brain… it was AUTISM, see?…She was DIFFERENT NOT LESS,” they all finally agreed.”

This story about Temple Grandin shows her perseverance and how she thinks differently, how her thoughts are in pictures. It is that same ability to think in pictures that led her to solve a real-life problem. And through this discovery, she became an innovator and inventor.

What Do You Do with an Idea?

This book is a lyrical story of a boy who has an idea that just won’t go away — an idea that wants attention. The boy in the book faces skepticism about his idea, but he perseveres. It is a story about accepting a new idea, a different idea, and how that idea might just change the world, “And then, I realized what you do with an idea… You change the world.”

What Do You Do with a Problem?

In the same lyrical style of What do you do with an idea? , except this time it’s a problem that won’t leave the boy alone. Until he faces it and solves it. And tries again and again. This book illustrates the idea that problems are opportunities and discoveries. That in the midst of struggle, we learn …  “My problem held an opportunity! It was an opportunity for me to learn and to grow; to be brave. To do something.”

Sarabella’s Thinking Cap

This is the story about a girl who daydreams — so much so that she sometimes loses focus in school. This is a great book for illustrating metacognition, Sarabella is lost in her thoughts– but she is self-aware of them too. It is a good book to open the door to ask your child about their own thinking.

This book shows what Sarabella is thinking and how her thinking makes her a little different. The understanding of her teacher and parents help her find a way to show this side of her. It is great for kids to see how a child’s internal world might be represented on the outside and get them thinking about their own imagination.

Going Places

I picked this book up at the library once on a whim and what a treasure! My son loves this book. It is time for the go-cart race challenge. Everyone gets the same kits for building their go-cart, with the same instructions. All of the children dutifully go about building their go-carts and hurrying to get them finished. All except for one child, who together with a friend builds something — not quite a go-cart, but something amazing.

I love that the characters do not follow the instructions, but quite literally, think outside of the box.

Your Fantastic, Elastic Brain: Stretch it, Shape it

One aspect of metacognition is understanding how your brain works. Often we think of the brain as static and unchangeable, but we know from neuroscience that the brain is plastic– changeable — that it grows and develops.

This book shows children how the brain is flexible and how trying new things, doing things differently, and thinking in new ways is how we stretch the brain.

As humans, we have a natural tendency to conserve energy — this includes brain energy. When something is hard to understand, we have a tendency to avoid it. That is the opposite of what we should do. Teaching children about the brain can help this. We can teach them that when they are really stretching their brain when it is really hard — that is a good thing. That sometimes thinking should be hard! That means the brain is stretching and growing in a new and different way.

An exercise in thinking differently, this simple picture book follows the main character through all the adventures he has in is Not a Box. A sweet and simple story about innovation and creativity. The new companion book follows a similar story — but with a stick, Not a Stick. These are books children love.

Mistakes That Worked: The World’s Familiar Inventions and How They Came to Be

From popsicles to penicillin, this non-fiction book includes stories about how a mistake can lead to something new. A great series of stories on how things are invented and how being open-minded leads to innovation. As the preface states “Name the greatest of all inventors. Accident. – Mark Twain.”

Papa’s Mechanical Fish

Based on a true story, this is the fictionalized account of a man living on Lake Michigan who attempted to build a submarine. I love that each time he fails and hits a setback his daughter has a creative suggestion that inspires him to try again.

The Girl Who Thought in Pictures: The Story of Dr. Temple Grandin

The Zoey & Sassafrass Series

This is a fun series that incorporates science and magical animals in mysterious adventures. Zoey’s (and her cat, Sassafrass) mission to help her animal friends depends on her ability to solve problems — scientifically. The books model scientific thinking — from the power of observation to how to do an experiment and how to write and test a hypothesis. Children will love to going along on Zoey and Sassafras’ adventures.

Dragons and Marshmallows (Zoey and Sassafras)

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How Parents Can Teach Kids Critical Thinking

A research-based guide to help highlight the importance of critical thinking..

Posted February 21, 2020

Recent controversy over the role of social media “ swarms ” in the 2020 election have served as a new reminder — as if we needed one — that public discourse is in bad disrepair. In the last few years have seen countless incidents of people — including many who should know better — weighing in on issues prematurely with little nuance and unhelpful vitriol, being duped by badly biased information or outright fake news , and automatically attributing the worst intentions to their opponents.

Liberal democracies have always relied on flawed sources to inform the public, but not until now have we been confronted with an online medium seemingly designed to play on our biases and emotions; encourage knee-jerk reactions, groupthink , and superficiality; and distract us from deeper thinking.

Better critical thinking skills are needed to help us confront these challenges. Nevertheless, we still don’t have a good handle on what it is and, especially, how best to foster it among children of all ages.

The stakes are now higher than ever.

To address this deficit, Reboot Foundation recently put out a Parents’ Guide to critical thinking. I work for Reboot and helped on the guide that attempts to give parents and other adults the tools and understanding they need to help their kids cope with technological upheaval, acquire the skills they need to navigate an ever more complicated and information-rich world, and overcome the pitfalls of biased and emotional reasoning.

1. Starting Young

As researchers have noted for some time now, critical thinking can’t be cleanly separated from cognitive development more generally. So, although many people still think of critical thinking as something that is appropriate to teach only in college or late high school, parents and educators should actually devote attention to developing critical thinking skills at a young age.

Of course, it’s not necessary or even possible to start teaching 4-year-olds high-level logic . But there’s a lot parents can do to open up their children’s minds to the world around them. The most important thing to foster at this young age is what researchers call metacognition : awareness of one’s own thinking and thought processes.

It’s only with metacognition that children will learn to think more strategically, identify errors in their thinking patterns, and recognize their own limitations and the value of others’ perspectives. Here are some good ways to foster these habits of mind.

  • Encourage kids’ curiosity by asking them lots of questions about why they think what they think. Parents should also not dismiss children’s speculative questions, but encourage them to think those questions through.
  • Encourage active reading by discussing and reflecting on books and asking children to analyze different characters’ thoughts and attitudes. Emphasize and embrace ambiguity.
  • Expose them as much as possible to children from different backgrounds — whether cultural, geographical, or socio-economic. These experiences are invaluable.
  • Bring children into adult conversations , within appropriate limits of course, and don’t just dismiss their contributions. Even if their contributions are unsophisticated or mistaken, engage with children and help them improve.

2. Putting Emotions in Perspective

Just as children need to learn how to step back from their thought processes, they must also learn how to step back from their emotions. As we’ve seen time and again in our public discourse, emotion is often the enemy of thinking. It can lead us to dismiss legitimate evidence; to shortchange perspectives that would otherwise be valuable; and to say and do things we later regret.

When children are young (ages 5 to 9), fostering emotional management should center around learning to take on new challenges and cope with setbacks. It’s important children be encouraged to try new things and not be protected from failure. These can include both intellectual challenges like learning a new language or musical instrument and physical ones like trying out rock-climbing or running a race.

When children fail — as they will — the adults around them should help them see that failing does not make them failures. Quite the opposite: it’s the only way to become successful.

As they get older, during puberty and adolescence , emotional management skills can help them deal better with confusing physical and social changes and maintain focus on their studies and long-term goals . Critical thinking, in this sense, need not — and should not — be dry or academic. It can have a significant impact on children’s and young adults’ emotional lives and their success beyond the classroom .

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3. Learning How to Be Online

Finally, critical thinking development in these challenging times must involve an online component. Good citizenship requires being able to take advantage of the wealth of information the internet offers and knowing how to avoid its many pitfalls.

Parental controls can be useful, especially for younger children, and help them steer clear of inappropriate content. But instilling kids with healthy online habits is ultimately more useful — and durable. Parents should spend time practicing web searches with their kids, teaching them how to evaluate sources and, especially, how to avoid distractions and keep focused on the task at hand.

We’ve all experienced the way the internet can pull us off task and down a rabbit hole of unproductive browsing. These forces can be especially hard for children to resist, and they can have long-term negative effects on their cognitive development.

As they get older, children should learn more robust online research skills , especially in how to identify different types of deceptive information and misinformation . Familiarizing themselves with various fact-checking sites and methods can be especially useful. A recent Reboot study found that schools are still not doing nearly enough to teach media literacy to students.

As kids routinely conduct more and more of their social lives online it’s also vital that they learn to differentiate between the overheated discourse on social media and genuine debate.

The barriers to critical thinking are not insurmountable. But if our public discourse is to come through the current upheaval intact, children, beginning at a young age, must learn the skills to navigate their world thoughtfully and critically.

Ulrich Boser

Ulrich Boser is the founder of The Learning Agency and a senior fellow at the Center for American Progress. He is the author of Learn Better, which Amazon called “the best science book of the year.”

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How you can nurture your child's critical thinking skills and help them solve life's problems

Critical thinking is a vital life skill for children which will enable them to evaluate information and make decisions

How you can nurture your child's critical thinking skills

This is the first part of a two-part series 'Raising a critical thinker'. Specific activities for (i) preschoolers, (ii) primary schoolchildren and (iii) pre-teens and teens, will be discussed in Part 2

Does your child believe everything they are told by friends or what they watch on television? Or, do they question things and evaluate information? If your answer is 'No' to the first question and 'Yes' to the second, your child is on the way to becoming a critical thinker. Critical thinking is an important life skill that every child needs to develop. Not only will it help them academically and increase their employability; it will help them solve life's problems.

What is critical thinking?

Critical thinking is the ability to think clearly and rationally about what to do or what to believe. It is understanding the logical connection between ideas and involves the ability to engage in reflective and independent thinking. It is not just acquiring and memorizing information. When you think critically, you have to make sense of the information, analyze, compare and contrast, make inferences, and solve problems.

A 2017 study titled ' Redefining Critical Thinking: Teaching Students to Think like Scientists ' authored by Schmaltz and others published in Frontiers in Psychology , discusses how the definition of critical thinking is increasingly being widened. It observes: "A strong focus should be placed on teaching students how to think like scientists. Scientific thinking is the ability to generate, test, and evaluate claims, data, and theories."

Today, children have access to vast amounts of information. Scientific thinking helps children distinguish good information from bad. They are able to detect misinformation or a questionable claim by thinking critically.

According to the American Philosophical Association (APA): "A person disposed towards critical thinking has positive critical spirit, a probing inquisitiveness, a keenness of mind, a zealous dedication to reason, and a hunger or eagerness for reliable information." APA experts go on to observe: "The commitment one makes as a good critical thinker is to always seek the truth with objectivity, integrity, and fair-mindedness."

Essential life skill Ellen Galinsky, American child development expert and author of Mind in the Making: The Seven Essential Life Skills Every Child Needs , includes critical thinking on her list of the seven essential life skills that every child should have. In a blog ' Critical Thinking in the Bathtub ', she writes: "To promote children's curiosity, be careful not to jump in too quickly to fix things they're struggling with, since working with the "confounding" situation is where critical thinking is promoted. Instead, where possible, help them figure out how they can resolve it for themselves."

Galinsky gives the example of a child trying to figure out why his rubber toy floats on the water in the bathtub, even when he pushes it down. You can help him understand the concept of floating by asking him: "Do you think a wet cloth would float? What about an empty shampoo bottle? What would happen if we filled the empty bottle with water?" This way, you are helping your child create and test hypotheses, like a scientist, she explains.

There is evidence that lessons in school can help boost children's critical thinking skills. However, such skills can be developed earlier at home with help from parents.

15 STRATEGIES FOR PARENTS Critical thinking skills can be nurtured and honed from an early age. The starting point is being curious, flexible, and open-minded. For instance, even a five-year-old may wonder why while penguins do not fly, they are still classified as birds. According to the APA, while young children may not be ready to understand lessons in formal logic, they can be asked to give reasons to explain why they are thinking a certain way or doing something in a particular way.

Described below are 15 ways parents can help nurture critical thinking skills in their children:

GENERAL GUIDELINES 

  • Opt for open-ended questions:  Go beyond 'what' and ask 'how' and 'why' questions. Ask your child: "Why do you think this to be true?", "How would you solve this problem?" Such questions will encourage your child to think further and more creatively. Ask follow-up questions as this will help them think through things more clearly. Also, let them know it's okay to be confused and encourage them to ask questions.
  • Wait before you provide the answers:  Allow your child to think for themselves. Don't intervene immediately to correct or provide answers. Give them time to attempt a task rather than jump in to do it yourself. So if your child is struggling with a puzzle, resist the urge to solve it for them. Instead, say something like, "See these 2 pieces? They have blue in the upper part, indicating the sky. Where do you think these pieces go?"
  • Use appropriate discipline strategies: The way you discipline your child can impact how your child develops critical thinking skills. For instance, how does a parent react when a child makes a mistake - does the parent punish the child with consequences or help the child find solutions? The latter promotes critical thinking. Let children learn from their mistakes.
  • Help them plan their time: Time management is an exercise that helps your child prioritize activities and allocate time to the things they want to do in a day. Critical thinking often happens when children have to make such choices for themselves. For example, if your teen goes out with his friends to the mall, help them back-calculate the time they would need to finish his movie and meal with friends to make it back home before the deadline.
  • Assure them that opinions are welcome:  When your child is able to take a position on an issue confidently - whether they agree or disagree with you (and if they disagree, why) - it is a sign that your child is exercising their critical thinking skills. But before this, they must be able to distinguish between facts and opinions. Then, your child will have to construct compelling arguments to support their opinion. Critical thinking need not be applied to only facts and academics. Encourage your child to ponder over ethical, moral, and social issues as well. For example, what would be your teen's stance on giving accommodations to students with learning disabilities during exams? Alert your child to fake news. Your child is bombarded with so much information these days through various media. You could teach them how to detect fake news by researching a matter.

THINKING SKILLS 

  • Encourage them to think for themselves: Encourage your child to check if something is true before believing it. Don't prevent your child from questioning established beliefs. Don't try to push dogma. You have to give a logical explanation to your child to reinforce any belief. Discuss biases that cloud judgment. For example, ask your child why some people avoid eating or drinking during a lunar eclipse. Help them develop logical mindsets. Also, encourages thinking in new ways. Ask your child: "What other possible solutions can you think of?" or "Is there another way you can resolve this issue?" Critical thinking will enable your child to evaluate new ideas.
  • Ensure clarity of thought:  While you must reassure your child that being confused is normal, help them, with facts and explanations, to achieve clarity. If your child thinks clearly, this will improve their comprehension. Moreover, they will be able to express their ideas clearly as well. For example, involve your child in choosing between two optional subjects in grade 8 or deciding on which car to buy as a family.
  • Ask them to explain their thought process:  Ask them to explain how they arrived at the solution to a problem. This will strengthen the neural pathways involved in critical thinking. For example, if your teen figures out how to raise ticket money for a concert they really want to go to (by selling muffins your teen bakes on weekends), you could discuss with them how they arrived at this solution and why this solution was most appropriate, versus others.
  • Allow them to find solutions on their own:  Not all questions have one answer, nor do all issues have one solution. Children have to be taught to be open-minded so that they can find alternative ways of looking at issues and coming up with innovative solutions.
  • Teach them to be good listeners: Listening patiently to what another person is saying before jumping to conclusions, or imposing your own views, is important to the process of critical thinking.
  • Encourage your child to play:  Both outdoor and indoor play (especially if it is free to play) provide opportunities to learn and think. Unstructured activities help the development of new neural pathways. This is also true of pretend and fantasy play. By understanding cause and effect during play, your child will develop the skills for abstract thinking. For example, if your child is pretending to be a superhero, you could ask your child to think about how they would solve the problem of water scarcity.
  • Give your child the opportunity to experiment:  Encourage your child to explore and experiment to test their beliefs. Help them to make and test hypotheses. Teach your child to think about predicting what will happen if a particular action is taken. For instance, if they put an additional block on top while building a castle, what is likely to happen - will all the blocks tumble or will they achieve a balance?
  • Expose your child to new experiences: For instance, encourage your child to join a debating club. It is a good way to develop critical thinking skills while interacting with peers. Also, provides challenging learning experiences. Word puzzles, math games, and riddles are very useful in getting your child to exercise your child's critical thinking skills.
  • Get your child to write:  Writing will help them get a clear perspective and also communicate their arguments effectively. For example, you could encourage your child to write a journal or a blog about their hobby ideas and experiences.
  • Let them pursue their passions:  Only when they are passionate about something will they be motivated to experiment and analyze the subject. For example, whether they are keen to learn a sport or have a deep interest in animals, let them follow their heart.

The value of critical thinking skills for a child cannot be overestimated. Children who think critically develop flexible minds that can absorb and evaluate new information efficiently. Parents can help develop these skills by following several strategies. If your parenting style encourages children to find solutions, thereby building their self-esteem, they will grow up to be 'thinking' children.

In a nutshell

  • Critical thinking is a core skill that will help a child academically as well in solving life's problems
  • This skill is not just about acquiring information but about making sense of the information - analyzing, comparing and contrasting, making inferences, and solving problems.
  • Parents can help develop critical thinking skills in their children by following certain strategies

What you could do right away

  • Ensure your child has enough time for free play
  • The next time your child argues with you, instead of getting angry or defensive, encourage them to express his views
  • Suggest that your child keeps a journal which will help them think clearly and logically

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Learn what critical thinking is and how to raise your child to be a critical thinker by asking questions and problem-solving.

by Abigale Schreier

Additional contribution by Rachel Tomlinson

Most parents aim to raise their children to be kind , courteous, successful, and independent adults. We can develop independence by raising children to be critical thinkers. Good critical thinking skills allow us to make informed decisions, problem solve , communicate, collaborate with others, and plan and set goals. 1

Critical thinking is also associated with higher educational achievement. It is a significant element of emotional intelligence linked with many benefits like resilience, increased positive and reciprocal relationships, better emotional regulation, and increased general quality of life. 2

So What is Critical Thinking?

Although research tells us how integral critical thinking is, there is less agreement about one set definition. 3 A couple of key definitions identify critical thinking as purposeful, goal-oriented, and well-reasoned and help direct the thinking required to solve problems and make decisions. 4 Alternatively, critical thinking is an investigation where the purpose is to explore a question, problem, or issue and arrive at a hypothesis of how to address or respond to something in a justified way based on the information available. 5 That sounds a little complicated, right?

According to Sally Macaluso , a special education teacher with a master’s degree in curriculum and instruction, critical thinking is a set of higher-level skills that allow us to take in new information, process and analyze it, and use it to form ideas and opinions .

She says critical thinking skills are essential in everyday life and help everyone make informed decisions, problem-solve, and set goals. Critical thinking skills also shape how we collaborate and communicate with our peers. And the best time to help instill these vital skills is early childhood. Parents and caregivers can encourage critical thinking in children and raise them to be critical thinkers in several ways.

Ways to Encourage Critical Thinking in Children

Research indicates that children can become critical thinkers if parents or other primary educators prioritize open-ended play. Children can also learn to think critically if they have the opportunity to problem-solve and experiment, ask questions and investigate, make their own choices (within reason), self-reflect, and set goals. It also helps if parents model critical thinking themselves. 6,7,8

This means sometimes going against forms of traditional parenting like the kind millennials grew up with — blind obedience to authority and our parents no matter what. This type of parenting stifles critical thinking. Macaluso says, “Some may feel it is good for children to follow the orders of their parents and authority figures without question. However, it can lead to children blindly following the ideas and suggestions of negative influences too, without considering the consequences.”

Consequences of following authority without question include being more susceptible to giving in to peer pressure , she says. In other words, you can raise your child to be a critical thinker by teaching them the art of debate. 9

Create a ‘Yes’ Space

A more concrete way to create an environment that welcomes questions and investigations is creating a “yes” space in your home. Our son has been in Montessori school since he was 18 months old , and their ideology is to follow the child and let them follow their interests to help them become independent . One way to foster independence is by creating “yes” spaces. This means creating safe spaces in your home where they cannot injure themselves.

You can create a place where it’s okay if they make a mess, and they can be left to their own devices to learn. This environment instills critical thinking skills because it welcomes questions and investigations.

Encourage Independent Play

Another way to encourage critical thinking in children is to allow your kids time to play independently . This is what parents in the 1980s and 1990s did right, whether they meant to or not. Children participating in independent play consistently throughout childhood become creative problem solvers 10 , and it helps them discover the value of evidence-based reasoning and higher-order cognitive skills, which are essential qualities to be a critical thinker.

Sergio Pellis, a researcher at the University of Lethbridge, told NPR that, “The experience of play changes the connections of the neurons at the front end of your brain.” 11 He added that the changes in the “prefrontal cortex” during childhood “rewire” the brain and help children learn to regulate emotions, make plans, and solve problems.

Further, according to a study published on the American Psychological Association website, there’s evidence that play promotes critical problem-solving skills , which is another crucial skill to have to be a critical thinker. 12

To raise your child to be a critical thinker, it’s crucial to model critical thinking behaviors for them, allow for a lot of free and independent play, and, as hard as it may be, let them question authority a bit—within reason. All the hard work and challenging parenting moments will be worth it in the long run when your kids are healthy, happy adults with superb critical thinking skills.

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1. Facione, P. (1990). Critical Thinking: A Statement of Expert Consensus for Purposes of Educational Assessment and Instruction, Research Findings and Recommendations, American Philosophical Association, Newark, Del.

2. Brackett, M.A., S.E. Rivers, & P. Salovey. 2011. “Emotional Intelligence: Implications for Personal, Social, Academic, and Workplace Success.” Social and Personality Psychology Compass 5 (1): 88–103.

3. Alfadhli, S. (2008). Developing critical thinking in e-learning environment: Kuwait University as a case study (PhD thesis).

4. Halpern, D. (1997). Teaching critical thinking for transfer across domains: Disposition, skills, structure training, and metacognitive monitoring. American Psychologist, 53(4), 449-455.

5. Kurfiss, J. (1988). Critical Thinking: Theory, Research, Practice, and Possibilities. Washington, D.C.: Association for the Study of Higher Education.

6. Lawrence, N., Serdikoff, S., Zinn, T., & Baker, S. (2008). Have we demystified critical thinking. In Dunn, D., Halonen, J., & Smith, R. (Eds.), Teaching Critical Thinking in Psychology (1st ed.) United Kingdom: Wiley-Blackwell.

7. Hansen, W., & Salemi, M. (2012). Improving classroom discussion in economics courses. In Hoyt, G. & McGoldrick, K. (Eds.), International handbook on teaching and learning economics (pp. 68-78). U.K.: Edward Elgar.

8. Yang, Y., Newby, T., & Bill, R. (2005). Using Socratic questioning to promote critical thinking skills through asynchronous discussion forums in distance learning environments. The American Journal of Distance Education, 19(3), 163-181.

9. https://parentingscience.com/

10. https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC2736021/

11. https://www.npr.org/sections/

12. https://psycnet.apa.org/record/1982-05495-001

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6 Ways to Raise a Critical Thinker and Why it’s the Parent’s Job

The art of raising critical thinkers may not be as challenging as you think! These 5 parenting techniques will help you raise kids who are independent thinkers and mindful humans. Teach your kids when and how to question authority with these tips.

As parents, we can learn a lot about how to interact with our children by observing past discoveries. And when we think about critical thinking, there is no better place to start than ancient Greece.

Approximately 2,500 years ago Socrates , a famous Greek Philosopher, established the idea of critical thinking.

He explained that we can’t always depend upon authority figures to know all the answers; therefore, it is important to probe and ask questions before we accept ideas as worthy of belief.

He encouraged others to look for evidence and not to just follow the crowd.

While philosophers or scientists have proven how important it is to QUESTION things, parenting styles historically leave no room for this type of learning and questioning.

For example, my son asked if he could stay up late on a school night to finish watching a football game. I simply said, “No, it’s late”.

While we, as parents, think we always know what is best for our children, this because-I-said-so parenting style many of us rely on does not develop critical thinkers.

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Why we Should Teach Critical Thinking Skills to Kids

Socrates would be spinning in his grave right now if he knew how important critical thinking was today.

This crazy political climate, the deep sea of internet knowledge, and social media lead to a greater need for critical thinking skills than ever before.

Emotions are high, out in the real world. And if we aren’t taught how to think logically, our own emotions can get the better of us.

While schools teach valuable lessons, they don’t necessarily focus on learning how to think critically outside of the classroom.

It is the parent’s job to teach children how to ask questions, evaluate factors – and how to effectively defend their views.

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Raising Critical Thinkers: 6 Easy Steps

What is critical thinking?

Critical thinking is a set of skills and habits of mind, including the ability to define a problem, identify assumptions, analyze pros and cons, and come to a decision. It also includes the ability to think openly and consider the point of view of others.

Parents often know what is best for our children or THINK they know what is best. However, making decisions for our children will squash their ability to learn and practice critical thinking skills.

Luckily, there are 5 simple, day-to-day tips that can guide parents to raising intelligent and independent thinkers.

If you are interested in raising critical thinkers, take these 6 easy steps.

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1) Replace “No” with “Convince me”

Before telling your child “No”, try asking them to state their case.

Tell your child that if they approach you with the reason they want something, what the pros and cons are, and what the expected outcome is, you will consider what they are asking about.

Let’s consider my son who wanted to stay up late on a school night to watch a football game.

When I asked him to convince me, he said:

  • This game determines if I win my Fantasy Football league
  • I realize I will be tired in the morning, but this is important to me
  • I promise I will set an alarm and get up on my own tomorrow

He thought it through, understood the consequences, and was prepared to own his decision.

I agreed, and while he was tired the following morning, life moved on and he learned how to voice his views and think critically.

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2) Exposure Your Child to the Unexpected – Experiences and Education

A life of strict rules and unwavering routines does not teach children how to deal with change and cope with adversity.

Child-raising specialist Laura Markham explains (in her  “What’s Wrong with Strict Parenting?”, n.d., Aha! Parenting.com  ) that studies on discipline consistently show that strict parenting actually produces kids with lower self-esteem who behave worse than other kids.

Allow your child to break routine – stay up late, go on a hike or family trip, try new activities together.

Fill your child with knowledge. Whether it is explaining situations that happened to you or walking through the museum.

Different experiences will give your child the flexibility and confidence to think for themselves when things don’t go as expected.

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3) Constantly Ask for Their Opinion

Your child will feel empowered, respected and trusted if you are frequently asking what they think about things.

Children automatically feel like an important part of the family when you ask for their opinion.

Whether it is with small things (like what should we have for dinner) or larger topics (such as do you think we need to move out of our house?), kids feel valued when you include them.

Including kids in decision-making conversations will help them learn how to think through new situations.

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4) Don’t Police Their Problems

Stop viewing conflict in your child’s life as a bad thing.

Working through arguments and conflicts teach children critical thinking skills.

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Step away and allow your child to have healthy fights with other children (of course if things elevate you can jump in!).

Conflict will always be a part of life, and sheltering your child from it will not teach them how to logically work through future problems.

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5) Ask Your Child “Says Who?”

Of course you want your child to listen to authority figures, such as police officers, teachers, and coaches.

However, there is a difference between respecting rules and blindly following them.

Explain to your child the following:

  • There is always more than one side to a story
  • It is ALWAYS okay to ask questions
  • If something doesn’t feel right or makes you feel uncomfortable, trust your gut instinct

Asking “says who” will get your child to think about what side of the story they are hearing.

While we should follow directions and respect authority, it is important to use your own critical thinking skills and life experiences to think through things yourself.

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6) Your Views Can and Will Change

A big part of critical thinking is the ability to have an open mind.

Our opinions and views are dynamic and may change as new evidence and information comes to light.

Sometimes, there are things that have definite answers, such as in math. But other times, there are different answers depending on one’s point of view.

Encourage kids to solve problems in new and different ways and understand that we all have different backgrounds, cultures, and truths that form our thought processes.

Final Thoughts on Raising Critical Thinkers

These simple tips will help you raise strong and resourceful kids.

A great first step is to get in the habit of asking your child to “present their case” instead of instantly turning them down.

Dear old Socrates would be proud if he knew that parents were actively teaching kids to be inquisitive, strong-headed, and self-aware.

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Teach them to thoughtfully question the world around them.

Examples of critical thinking skills like correlation tick-tac-Toe, which teaches analysis skills and debates which teach evaluation skills.

Little kids love to ask questions. “Why is the sky blue?” “Where does the sun go at night?” Their innate curiosity helps them learn more about the world, and it’s key to their development. As they grow older, it’s important to encourage them to keep asking questions and to teach them the right kinds of questions to ask. We call these “critical thinking skills,” and they help kids become thoughtful adults who are able to make informed decisions as they grow older.

What is critical thinking?

Critical thinking allows us to examine a subject and develop an informed opinion about it. First, we need to be able to simply understand the information, then we build on that by analyzing, comparing, evaluating, reflecting, and more. Critical thinking is about asking questions, then looking closely at the answers to form conclusions that are backed by provable facts, not just “gut feelings” and opinion.

Critical thinkers tend to question everything, and that can drive teachers and parents a little crazy. The temptation to reply, “Because I said so!” is strong, but when you can, try to provide the reasons behind your answers. We want to raise children who take an active role in the world around them and who nurture curiosity throughout their entire lives.

Key Critical Thinking Skills

So, what are critical thinking skills? There’s no official list, but many people use Bloom’s Taxonomy to help lay out the skills kids should develop as they grow up.

A diagram showing Bloom's Taxonomy (Critical Thinking Skills)

Source: Vanderbilt University

Bloom’s Taxonomy is laid out as a pyramid, with foundational skills at the bottom providing a base for more advanced skills higher up. The lowest phase, “Remember,” doesn’t require much critical thinking. These are the skills kids use when they memorize math facts or world capitals or practice their spelling words. Critical thinking doesn’t begin to creep in until the next steps.

Understanding requires more than memorization. It’s the difference between a child reciting by rote “one times four is four, two times four is eight, three times four is twelve,” versus recognizing that multiplication is the same as adding a number to itself a certain number of times. Schools focus more these days on understanding concepts than they used to; pure memorization has its place, but when a student understands the concept behind something, they can then move on to the next phase.

Application opens up whole worlds to students. Once you realize you can use a concept you’ve already mastered and apply it to other examples, you’ve expanded your learning exponentially. It’s easy to see this in math or science, but it works in all subjects. Kids may memorize sight words to speed up their reading mastery, but it’s learning to apply phonics and other reading skills that allows them to tackle any new word that comes their way.

Analysis is the real leap into advanced critical thinking for most kids. When we analyze something, we don’t take it at face value. Analysis requires us to find facts that stand up to inquiry, even if we don’t like what those facts might mean. We put aside personal feelings or beliefs and explore, examine, research, compare and contrast, draw correlations, organize, experiment, and so much more. We learn to identify primary sources for information, and check into the validity of those sources. Analysis is a skill successful adults must use every day, so it’s something we must help kids learn as early as possible.

Almost at the top of Bloom’s pyramid, evaluation skills let us synthesize all the information we’ve learned, understood, applied, and analyzed, and to use it to support our opinions and decisions. Now we can reflect on the data we’ve gathered and use it to make choices, cast votes, or offer informed opinions. We can evaluate the statements of others too, using these same skills. True evaluation requires us to put aside our own biases and accept that there may be other valid points of view, even if we don’t necessarily agree with them.

In the final phase, we use every one of those previous skills to create something new. This could be a proposal, an essay, a theory, a plan—anything a person assembles that’s unique.

Note: Bloom’s original taxonomy included “synthesis” as opposed to “create,” and it was located between “apply” and “evaluate.” When you synthesize, you put various parts of different ideas together to form a new whole. In 2001, a group of cognitive psychologists removed that term from the taxonomy , replacing it with “create,” but it’s part of the same concept.

How To Teach Critical Thinking

Using critical thinking in your own life is vital, but passing it along to the next generation is just as important. Be sure to focus on analyzing and evaluating, two multifaceted sets of skills that take lots and lots of practice. Start with these 10 Tips for Teaching Kids To Be Awesome Critical Thinkers . Then try these critical thinking activities and games. Finally, try to incorporate some of these 100+ Critical Thinking Questions for Students into your lessons. They’ll help your students develop the skills they need to navigate a world full of conflicting facts and provocative opinions.

One of These Things Is Not Like the Other

This classic Sesame Street activity is terrific for introducing the ideas of classifying, sorting, and finding relationships. All you need are several different objects (or pictures of objects). Lay them out in front of students, and ask them to decide which one doesn’t belong to the group. Let them be creative: The answer they come up with might not be the one you envisioned, and that’s OK!

The Answer Is …

Post an “answer” and ask kids to come up with the question. For instance, if you’re reading the book Charlotte’s Web , the answer might be “Templeton.” Students could say, “Who helped save Wilbur even though he didn’t really like him?” or “What’s the name of the rat that lived in the barn?” Backwards thinking encourages creativity and requires a good understanding of the subject matter.

Forced Analogies

Forced Analogies: A Critical thinking Activity

Practice making connections and seeing relationships with this fun game. Kids write four random words in the corners of a Frayer Model and one more in the middle. The challenge? To link the center word to one of the others by making an analogy. The more far out the analogies, the better!

Learn more: Forced Analogies at The Owl Teacher

Primary Sources

Tired of hearing “I found it on Wikipedia!” when you ask kids where they got their answer? It’s time to take a closer look at primary sources. Show students how to follow a fact back to its original source, whether online or in print. We’ve got 10 terrific American history–based primary source activities to try here.

Science Experiments

Collage of students performing science experiments using critical thinking skills

Hands-on science experiments and STEM challenges are a surefire way to engage students, and they involve all sorts of critical thinking skills. We’ve got hundreds of experiment ideas for all ages on our STEM pages , starting with 50 Stem Activities To Help Kids Think Outside the Box .

Not the Answer

Multiple-choice questions can be a great way to work on critical thinking. Turn the questions into discussions, asking kids to eliminate wrong answers one by one. This gives them practice analyzing and evaluating, allowing them to make considered choices.

Learn more: Teaching in the Fast Lane

Correlation Tic-Tac-Toe

Two 3 by 3 grids of pictures showing mountains, islands, and other landforms, with Xs drawn in each grid to form tic-tac-toe lines.

Here’s a fun way to work on correlation, which is a part of analysis. Show kids a 3 x 3 grid with nine pictures, and ask them to find a way to link three in a row together to get tic-tac-toe. For instance, in the pictures above, you might link together the cracked ground, the landslide, and the tsunami as things that might happen after an earthquake. Take things a step further and discuss the fact that there are other ways those things might have happened (a landslide can be caused by heavy rain, for instance), so correlation doesn’t necessarily prove causation.

Learn more: Critical Thinking Tic-Tac-Toe at The Owl Teacher

Inventions That Changed the World

Explore the chain of cause and effect with this fun thought exercise. Start it off by asking one student to name an invention they believe changed the world. Each student then follows by explaining an effect that invention had on the world and their own lives. Challenge each student to come up with something different.

Learn more: Teaching With a Mountain View

Critical Thinking Games

Pile of board games that encourage critical thinking skills

There are so many board games that help kids learn to question, analyze, examine, make judgments, and more. In fact, pretty much any game that doesn’t leave things entirely up to chance (Sorry, Candy Land) requires players to use critical thinking skills. See one teacher’s favorites at the link below.

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This is one of those classic critical thinking activities that really prepares kids for the real world. Assign a topic (or let them choose one). Then give kids time to do some research to find good sources that support their point of view. Finally, let the debate begin! Check out 100 Middle School Debate Topics , 100 High School Debate Topics , and 60 Funny Debate Topics for Kids of All Ages .

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Developing Critical Thinking Skills in Early Learners

June 10, 2024

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Developing Critical Thinking Skills in Early Learners

As parents, educators, and carers, we know young children are constantly exploring, questioning, and learning about their world. But there’s a deeper skill that allows them to navigate it with more confidence and capability: critical thinking.

Developing critical thinking skills in early learners goes beyond teaching kids to “think.” It’s about guiding them to analyze, evaluate, and make decisions independently—a toolkit that serves them for life. So, how do we nurture these essential skills in early childhood? Let’s dive in.

What Is Critical Thinking in Early Childhood?

Critical thinking is the ability to think clearly and rationally, understanding the logical connection between ideas. For early learners, it’s about observing, questioning, and exploring ideas from multiple perspectives. At this age, fostering critical thinking doesn’t require complex theories but rather a focus on nurturing curiosity, problem-solving, and creativity in everyday activities.

Why Is Critical Thinking Important for Early Learners?

Critical thinking plays a vital role in helping children understand the world around them. It empowers them to make informed decisions, solve problems, and ask questions that deepen their knowledge. Here are some benefits:

  • Enhanced Problem-Solving Skills – They learn to think through situations and find solutions.
  • Increased Independence – Children gain the confidence to make decisions on their own.
  • Greater Resilience – Critical thinkers are better equipped to handle setbacks.
  • Improved Communication – They learn to express their thoughts and listen to others.

Key Components of Critical Thinking in Early Childhood

Critical thinking can be broken down into several core components, each of which can be developed through simple, engaging activities:

  • Curiosity – A desire to learn and understand.
  • Observation – Looking closely at details.
  • Questioning – Asking “how” and “why.”
  • Reasoning – Connecting ideas logically.
  • Reflection – Considering and analyzing what’s been learned.

How Can Educators Foster Critical Thinking in Young Children?

1. create a safe environment for exploration.

Children need to feel safe to experiment, ask questions, and make mistakes. A supportive classroom or learning space encourages children to try new things and fosters a sense of security that’s essential for critical thinking.

2. Encourage Open-Ended Questions

Open-ended questions like “What do you think will happen if…?” or “Why do you think that?” invite children to think deeply and articulate their thoughts. These questions are more valuable than yes-or-no queries because they engage children in reasoning and analysis.

3. Integrate Problem-Solving Activities

Introduce games and activities that promote problem-solving. Puzzles, building blocks, and matching games are excellent ways to get children thinking critically. Encourage children to find multiple ways to solve a problem, showing them that there’s often more than one “right” answer.

4. Model Critical Thinking Skills

Children learn by observing adults. When you face a problem, narrate your thought process. For example, say, “I’m trying to decide which story to read. This one has fun pictures, but that one is shorter. What do you think?”

5. Use Stories and Literature

Stories are a great way to stimulate critical thinking. Ask questions about characters’ motives, predict what might happen next, or explore alternative endings. Encourage children to connect story elements to their own lives, helping them analyze and relate to different perspectives.

6. Foster Creative Thinking with Art and Play

Art activities and imaginative play allow children to explore their creativity, an important part of critical thinking. Provide materials and let them create without strict guidelines. This freedom encourages independent decision-making and problem-solving in a fun, engaging way.

7. Encourage Reflection and Self-Assessment

After completing a task, encourage children to reflect on what they learned or could do differently next time. Reflection helps them become more aware of their own thinking processes, a key component of critical thinking.

Practical Activities to Build Critical Thinking Skills

Sorting and categorizing.

Sorting activities help young children recognize patterns, an essential skill in logical reasoning. Try sorting toys by color, shape, or size, or sort items based on their function. Sorting helps kids learn to classify and organize information, building a foundation for critical thinking.

Building and Engineering Challenges

Blocks, LEGO, and other building toys encourage problem-solving. Ask children to build a structure and then think about how they can make it sturdier or taller. Challenges like these inspire children to think critically and experiment with cause-and-effect relationships.

Science Experiments

Simple science activities, like mixing baking soda and vinegar, teach kids about hypothesis testing and observation. Ask them to predict what will happen, observe, and then discuss the results. Experiments help children engage with the scientific method—a natural pathway to critical thinking.

Role-Playing and Pretend Play

Pretend play scenarios encourage children to think from different perspectives. Ask them to imagine being a teacher, a doctor, or a shopkeeper. Role-playing promotes empathy and problem-solving, as kids navigate various social situations and responsibilities.

Story Retelling and Story Sequencing

After reading a story, ask children to retell it in their own words or put events in order. Story sequencing enhances memory, comprehension, and the ability to organize thoughts—a precursor to critical thinking.

“What If” Scenarios

“What if” questions stimulate imagination and problem-solving. For instance, “What if it suddenly started raining inside?” or “What if the animals in the zoo could talk?” These scenarios allow children to think beyond reality, fostering creative critical thinking.

Tips for Parents to Foster Critical Thinking at Home

Be a questioner, not just a director.

Instead of directing children with “Do this,” ask, “How do you think we should do this?” Encourage their input in small decisions around the house, like organizing their toys or choosing a recipe to bake together.

Encourage Exploration and Hands-On Learning

Activities like cooking, gardening, and fixing household items offer learning moments. Show them the process, ask questions, and let them explore. Real-world problem-solving is invaluable for developing critical thinking.

Make Mistakes a Learning Opportunity

When mistakes happen, help children analyze what went wrong and how they can approach it differently next time. This teaches resilience and adaptability—two hallmarks of critical thinkers.

Common Challenges in Teaching Critical Thinking

1. age appropriateness.

Critical thinking activities must be age-appropriate to avoid overwhelming children. Tailor activities to suit their developmental stage, focusing on fun, hands-on learning rather than abstract concepts.

2. Encouraging Curiosity Without Overwhelm

Sometimes, children’s questions can be endless! Patience is key. Instead of trying to answer every “why,” encourage them to explore and find some answers independently. This autonomy is crucial for critical thinking.

3. Overcoming Fear of “Messing Up”

Children might hesitate to think critically if they fear failure. Create a safe environment where mistakes are seen as learning opportunities, not setbacks. Encourage them to try different approaches, even if they don’t succeed every time.

The Role of Technology in Critical Thinking for Early Learners

While screen time should be limited, there are digital resources designed to develop critical thinking skills. Interactive games that focus on problem-solving, puzzles, and creative activities can supplement real-world learning.

The Long-Term Benefits of Early Critical Thinking Skills

When critical thinking skills are nurtured from a young age, they become a lifelong asset. Children grow into adults who can navigate complex situations, adapt to change, and approach challenges with resilience and insight. They learn to analyze situations, think independently, and express their ideas with confidence.

Teaching critical thinking to early learners isn’t about complicating their world—it’s about equipping them with tools to understand it. Encouraging curiosity, asking open-ended questions, and allowing them to explore give children the foundation for a lifetime of confident, independent thinking.

Nurturing critical thinking in young children is one of the most valuable gifts we can offer. This skill set is essential for future learning, problem-solving, and resilience. By incorporating these strategies into both school and home environments, we empower children to be thinkers, questioners, and explorers.

As we invest in their curiosity and creativity today, we’re building a generation that can approach the future with wisdom, confidence, and critical insight.

Why is critical thinking important in early childhood education?

Critical thinking helps children learn to analyze situations, solve problems, and make decisions independently. These skills build a foundation for lifelong learning, enabling kids to approach challenges with confidence and resilience. Early development of critical thinking also strengthens creativity, curiosity, and the ability to communicate ideas effectively.

How can parents encourage critical thinking at home?

Parents can foster critical thinking by encouraging open-ended questions, letting children make small decisions, and promoting hands-on learning activities like cooking, gardening, or building. Simple practices, like asking "What do you think will happen if...?" or encouraging kids to solve everyday problems, help children practice independent thinking.

What types of activities can develop critical thinking in young children?

Activities like sorting, building, science experiments, pretend play, and storytelling are great for developing critical thinking. These tasks encourage kids to observe, reason, and explore possibilities. For example, role-playing teaches empathy and problem-solving, while building blocks help with logical reasoning and spatial awareness.

How can teachers make critical thinking activities engaging for young children?

Teachers can make critical thinking activities engaging by creating a supportive and fun environment that encourages curiosity and exploration. Using hands-on materials, interactive games, and story-based scenarios can make critical thinking feel like play rather than work. Open-ended questions and creative challenges, like “What if” scenarios, help keep children engaged and curious.

How can critical thinking skills benefit children in the long term?

Children who develop critical thinking skills early are better equipped to navigate complex situations as they grow. They’re more adaptable, resilient, and capable of making thoughtful decisions. These skills also support academic success, social skills, and emotional intelligence, helping them approach challenges confidently and constructively throughout their lives.

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