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I'll write your wedding speech, and help you make it unforgettable.

Hello! I'm James. A bit about me... 

First class degree in English.

Worked in public speaking for a decade.

Currently a professional speechwriter for many clients. 

I've coached national broadcasters.

I'm discreet, collaborative, and communicative.

And I'm available to help you succeed.

Take a look at my testimonials , find out more about how it works , and  get in touch for a chat.

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'James made it easy to deliver a first class speech, from scoping out ideas and writing a draft to coaching my delivery and slotting in last minute changes. Attentive and efficient. Would highly recommend.'

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As a wedding speechwriter and wedding speech coach, I'm here to help with your wedding speech from page to delivery. 

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Speech writing is not easy and writing a wedding speech is even more challenging. So we’re here to relieve your pain and ease your worries by writing a memorable speech for you. With your personalised input, we'll write your wedding speech quickly and professionally.

You could spend hours trawling through the internet trying to cut and paste your speech, inserting jokes here or there. However, a copied speech won’t have your voice and it will be easy to tell that the words aren’t your own. Don’t you think the bride or groom who chose you, deserve an authentic and heartfelt speech?

A wedding speech should be an intimate expression of your feelings. Your wedding speech should be unique and personal. We’ll help you craft a wedding speech that is tailored by and written for you.  And don't forget, our wedding speech writing service is completely confidential - no-one will ever know you didn't write it yourself!

  “I would like to tell you that the Father of the Bride speech you wrote for me connected so well with the guests that at the end I had a rapturous applause.  But the best moment for me was when my daughter said to me - Dad that was a great speech.   Carole, thanks for writing me such a beautiful speech.”  Mark R.

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As a proud father, you'll share happy memories in a sincere and heartfelt speech that will include all the sentiment and feelings that you want to convey

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Prepare your Maid of Honour or Bridesmaid speech today. With the duties that come with helping the bride on her big day, don't delay writing your speech

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This is your moment to stand up behind the microphone by breaking with tradition and sharing all those special hopes and dreams that are now coming true

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We're a small group of professional wedding speech writers who compose exceptional speeches for you. Your speech will be customised to reflect your thoughts and feelings for a very special day. We are wedding speech experts! Let us remove the stress of writing your wedding speech. And don't forget - our speech writing service is completely confidential and no-one will ever know that you didn't write it yourself!

We can edit your existing speech or write a new one from scratch. We’ve written speeches for clients from South Africa to Australia, and we’re excited to help you.

We also offer coaching services to help you deliver the perfect speech. Our principal writer, Carole Spiers is an author and motivational speaker, she will give you the hints and tips needed to help you deliver your speech with poise and panache. Coaching consultations are conducted in-person or via Skype -depending on what works out best for you.

How Can We Help You?

Given that you’re speaking of people you know and love, you already have an idea of what you want to include in your wedding speech. Funny stories and tasteful jokes are the parts of the speech that only you can provide; we help you incorporate them into a memorable speech. If you’re having sleepless nights and don’t know where to start, or finish, we take away all the hassle by providing you with a uniquely personal speech.

Traditional Wedding Speeches

Years ago, it was traditional for only the Groom, Best Man and Father of the Bride to make a wedding speech. The idea of three speeches being given by three men has become a thing of the past. Maids of Honour, Bridesmaids, and Mothers of the Bride or Groom now deliver wedding speeches.

A Wedding speech should involve and excite the audience, not put them to sleep! Speeches can be put to music; they can include stories from the past and be brought to life with pictures. The choices are endless and there is a great opportunity to be creative and deliver one of the best wedding speeches a guest has ever heard.

It’s very easy to get emotional at a wedding, but your wedding speech isn’t the time for tears. Remember, you aren’t speaking to just the bride and groom, you’re there for the guests as well.

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  • All wedding speeches are composed by wedding speech writer, Carole Spiers and her team.
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  • Select your wedding speech e.g. Groom, Bride, Best Man, Father of the Bride or Maid of Honour
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  • Your wedding speech will be then written and sent back to you for approval within 3 days.

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We had a wonderful wedding last month and my father of the bride speech went down brilliantly and I received loads of compliments. I can't thank you enough for your help. I have to say I was unsure of coming to you at first, but I am so delighted that I took the plunge and did so.

Absolutely perfect. We got married last month and my wedding speech is still the ‘talk of the town’. My bride was proud of me, my parents couldn’t believe their ears, and I think my in-laws were rather impressed! Thank goodness I found you. The wedding speech you wrote for me was exactly what I wanted to say. I can’t thank you enough. You took all my stress away!

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Public speaking can be extremely daunting, but with the right speech supporting you, it can be made easier.

With years of experience of hearing and writing wedding speeches, I know what makes a good one.

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As your wedding speech writer, I can be as involved in the speech-writing process as you’d like me to be.

I’ll always arrange a meeting or video call to get a feel for what exactly you’re trying to say.

And then I can either write the speech from scratch, give your almost finished speech a quick once-over, or anything in between.

I’ll also give you some tips and guidance on how best to deliver your speech and how to overcome nerves.

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With over five years of professionalism within the wedding and funeral industries, and over twenty years of performing experience, I know what makes an event work.

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You’ve been chosen to be the best man. Congratulations! It is, of course, a great honour, but all you can think of is ….THE SPEECH

Unsure where to begin, bride & bridesmaids struggling to find the right tone, father of the bride & groom terrified about public speaking, best man wanting to dazzle your friends with a brilliant speech.

Wedding Speech Guru is a coaching service for anyone making a wedding speech. Wherever you are in the speech writing process, we can help.

Are you staring at a blank sheet of paper, unsure how to begin?  We will give you a structure and enable you to gather your material.

Are you nervous about speaking in public? We will help you overcome your fears and connect with your audience.

Do you require an editor to assess and develop a speech you have already started?  We will help you establish the narrative, tone and flow.

Do you need to practise and perfect your delivery?  We will make sure you command your audience’s attention and speak with confidence and composure.

Core to our philosophy is the belief that every wedding is entirely unique, as is the person giving the speech… YOU. With my help you will develop and deliver a speech that only you could give, rich with humour, insight and affection.

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Book your  free telephone consultation  on your speech via the contact form, get in touch via email or just give us a call. Together we will assess your needs and make a plan

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It really all worked out beautifully. Thanks for your help.
Everyone commented on what a wonderful speech it was. I think it was a lovely mixture of real heartfelt emotion with great splashes of humour. I can’t thank you enough for all your help.
The speech went incredibly well, we got loads of laughs and so many compliments afterwards. Definitely a success – thank you!
Thank you for all your help. It went very well. I had a lot of people come up to me afterwards and congratulate me on a speech that was emotional, funny, and enjoyable to listen to. A couple even said it was the best FOB speech they had heard!
The speech went down a treat! They really enjoyed it, thanks for helping me refine it; it most certainly helped
Before I came to you I had absolutely no idea how I was going to pull this off! The speech was absolutely perfect. Waiting to deliver it was like when you buy someone a really good present and can’t wait for them to unwrap it. The speech got all the laughs in the right places and even brought a tear to both the bridesmaids at the end. Thanks again and I’m going to push some of my other friends toward marriage just so we can work together again and I can feel that moment of delivering a great speech.  
Thank you very much for your help which gave me so much confidence when I delivered my Father of the Bride speech. It was warmly received by everyone, getting laughter and applause at the appropriate time… it completely overwhelmed me.    
Thanks for all your help and advice. The speech we finished up with was 100 times better than what we started with. The stories were the same but the delivery was so much better thanks to you.
The speech turned out great – everyone was really impressed and some people even said it was the best wedding speech they had ever heard! Thanks so much for all of your help – I couldn’t have done it without you.

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“MY GOODNESS.!.!.! Fantastic! Now I know why you guys do this for a living.!.!.!. I did think it would  be good but this has blown whatever I imagined for my wedding speech out the water.”  – Rich C.

The internet is full of wedding speech templates and cut-and-paste jokes.  We are proud to use none of them.  Every wedding speech we write starts with a blank piece of paper and is based entirely on information you provide (face-to-face, over the phone or via email).  We are also delighted to give our feedback on a speech you have already written, and happy to edit it as required.

A generation ago, the speeches at a typical wedding were often restricted to the groom and a friend of the bride’s family (often a Godfather).  Now, the father of the bride, groom and best man will almost always speak, and there may be more!

The wedding speeches we write most regularly are listed below.  Where relevant they are linked to a page offering more information and advice.  Please do contact us if you are stuck, or in need of someone to take the strain.

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Using my experience of working as a public speaker I have designed a range of workshops and courses to help individuals and Celebrants alike. Below you will find the current courses that I offer.

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Standing up in public making a speech can be terrifying experience for some but you want to deliver a memorable speech with confidence.

I support you by giving you confidence reducing any anxieties.  As a professional creative writer, I help write the content, having spoken with you understanding your vision, learning about you and the event, I write your speech remembering to include those all-important ‘thanks’ and put the content into your voice.   ‍

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After helping you write your speech, as a trained BBC public speaker I can coach you on 1:1 basis to increase your confidence giving you tips and opportunity to practice, or from attending my group professional speaking courses , so you stand up and give that speech without fear or worries, resulting in you sitting back with ease appreciating the round of applause from the guests!

Available to Groom, Bride, Parent of Groom or Bride, Bestman or Bestwoman, Maid of Honour, Bridesmaid, Groomsman or for any other role.   Available in any location across the UK.

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The Art of Wedding Speech Writing

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The Art of Wedding Speech Writing

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Giving a wedding speech can be a daunting task. As you stand up to address the happy couple and all their family and friends, you want your words to be meaningful, entertaining, and memorable. Mastering the art of wedding speech writing takes thoughtfulness, creativity, and an understanding of what makes an impactful speech. Some speakers even enlist professional help from a top-notch essay writing service UK to help craft an outstanding tribute to the newlyweds. In this comprehensive guide, we will walk through the key elements for crafting inspiring nuptial remarks.

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Getting Started: Setting Yourself Up for Success

When you are asked to give a wedding speech, it is both an honour and a responsibility. Your role is to capture the occasion’s significance with wisdom and warmth. Thoughtful preparation is paramount to creating a speech that truly touches the hearts of all who hear it. 

Here are some tips to get started.

Choose a peaceful time and place to write when you can immerse yourself in the process without distractions. Clear your mind and connect with the love surrounding the bride and groom. What wishes do you have for them? What memories or adventures do you want to highlight? Capture any initial thoughts in a notebook or speech outline draft. This will give your creativity momentum when you are ready for the actual writing.

Do your research if you need more context around the couple. Talk to family and friends to hear their favourite stories or fondest memories. Get a sense of the history of the relationship, meaningful places or events, inside jokes, and hopes for the future. Integrating these personal details will make your speech more meaningful.

Finally, spend time reflecting on your role in the lives of the bride and groom. How did you meet them? What have you admired over the years? What advice or encouragement do you want to offer as they start their marriage? Convey your authentic connection through sentimental examples.

Crafting Your Content: Key Elements to Include

Once you have gathered memories, messages, and well wishes to share, it is time to craft them into a cohesive wedding speech . While each one will vary based on your unique relationship and perspective, these elements make a memorable narrative:

The Introduction

Get the audience’s attention with a thoughtful opening line then welcome and thank everyone for celebrating with the couple today. Feel free to be humorous, sentimental, or surprising depending on your tone and relationship.

Expression of Affection or Admiration

Share what you most admire or appreciate about the couple. Highlight their personalities, quirks, accomplishments and growth together over time through thoughtful stories and examples. If you need help capturing these precious memories, consider hiring one of the best affordable essay writing services to interview the couple’s friends and family and transform their recollections into a moving speech. This can elicit laughter or happy tears.

Well Wishes for the Marriage

Offer heartfelt advice, encouragement, hopes and blessings for their future together based on what you know of the couple. This builds excitement for their next chapter. Consider weaving in scripture, poetry, or quotes if appropriate. The possibilities are endless!

Toast to the Couple: “ And now, let’s raise our glasses to Johnny and Susie! We love you and wish you a lifetime of happiness, adventure, and unity together! ” (Cue the champagne.)

Personalising Your Speech: Making it Memorable

Once you have covered the key sections, it is time to add stylistic flair. Personalize your speech using the following literary techniques:

Playful Word Choices

Pepper in alliteration, rhymes, creative descriptions and even made-up words to describe this one-of-a-kind couple. These playful phrases stick in people’s minds long after the celebration.

Thoughtful Structure

Alternate between long, complex sentences brimming with colorful details; and short, simple declarations that pack an emotional punch.

Surprising Comparisons

Challenge your audience to see the bride and groom in a whole new light. Compare their quirks to favourite movies, nature metaphors, and heroic archetypes…let your imagination wander.

Ultimately your distinctive expressions and phrasing choices should reveal your genuine affection while touching the wider realm of human connection. Master speech writers understand this ability to weave the personal with the universal.

Pulling It All Together: Refining Your Final Draft

You have written a heartfelt, thoughtful speech brimming with personal touches. Now it is time to polish it into its best form.

Read Your Speech Aloud

You may discover awkward phrasing, too much repetition, or confusing transitions when you hear it out loud. Refine anything that sounds off.

Time Yourself

Use a timer and aim for your speech to last 3-5 minutes maximum. This ensures you highlight the most meaningful moments without dominating the reception. Adjust the length as needed.

Memorise Your Content

While you can carry your printed speech as a backup, memorizing it will help you deliver it smoothly while making eye contact with the newlyweds. Use memory techniques and practice often before the big day. When the words come directly from your heart, their impact amplifies.

Add a Meaningful Gift

Consider presenting the couple with a personalised gift at the end representing your good wishes – a scrapbook of your shared history, a symbolic plant to watch grow, custom artwork capturing their personalities, etc. This tangible memento makes your speech even more memorable.

When your content feels meaningful, your phrasing rolls lyrically off the tongue, and your delivery channels sincerity they will feel deep in their souls – you have truly mastered the art of wedding speech writing. The bride and groom will remember and cherish your poignant words for decades to come. That is the gift that keeps on giving.

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One of the highlights of any wedding day are the speeches. However, it's also an incredibly hectic time for those involved and finding time to write that touching, witty and memorable speech can seem a bit daunting. Which is where I come in...

So, to avoid writing your speech on the back of a napkin during the pudding, why not let me take the reins, and I can take all the pressure off you? I can even give you tips as to how best to learn and deliver the speech. 

The process is simple. You can either email or call me, and we can discuss what kind of speech you're looking for. If you wish to go ahead, I will then send you a questionnaire which is designed to get all the information I need to write your bespoke speech. When filling in the questionnaire, the rule of thumb is simple. The more information, colour and stories (not all of them have to be embarrassing!) I am given by the client, the more I can work with. 

A bit about me - I've been working as a freelance writer for over 23 years, and writing wedding speeches for the past six years.

As a professional writer I've worked with comedians such as Al Murray, Jimmy Carr, Lenny Henry, Joan Rivers, Jason Manford, Matt Forde and many more. I've also worked on numerous TV shows, including Danger Mouse (He's asked me to write his best man speech when Penfold meets the right hamster).

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Best man - person of honour  , groom - celebrant  , bride - celebrant  , father of the bride - parent of the celebrant, after dinner speeches, need help with your after dinner speech.

If you need an after dinner speech or help to edit an existing speech you've come to the right place. 

If you're someone who needs their after dinner speech to be beefed up or someone who's never done it before I can help. Whether your audience

is corporate or perhaps you're speaking at a sports dinner or an awards ceremony I can make your life that much easier.

Sit back, and let me take the strain and you can take all the accolades.  No one ever need know you didn't write it yourself.

After Dinner Speaking (Corporate, Awards Ceremonies)  Between £400 - £2,000

If you would like to discuss your speech please contact me.

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"Matt helped me with my wedding speech, He's a very good writer and a very nice guy." - Tom

“For someone well into his middle age and who has never had to give an after dinner speech the thought of this was quite daunting. However I shouldn’t have worried. With the help of Mathew in structuring the speech what could have been an overwhelming occasion was made almost relaxing” - Mike 

"Matt was great at molding and adapting the speech to the occasion. He helped take the stress out of it and gave me confidence that everything would go well on the day." - Robert

"Matt is one of those people that can take the most muddled of mundane and turn it into a story - from a chat over a cup of tea on a Sunday morning he produced the most amazing of father of the bride speeches - funny, touching and memorable - yet made it sound as if it were written by the Father of the Bride himself.

His ability to pick put small details and tease out a story from an emotionally repressed northerner was so very much appreciated - except maybe by the Best Man who followed afterwards with a far too long, ripped from the internet repost, delivered badly ...

If I needed the help of a thought straightener/mind mining speechwriter again I would go straight back to Matt - whilst the line about the 'middle class mafia hit' didn't make it into the final version (for proprieties sake) I still cant go past a Waitrose without chuckling." -  Andrew

"Thank you very much for a fantastic speech! So witty, I'm so happy with it" - Alex

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I am Marc Blakewill, an experienced speech writer, who can write you a speech you can’t wait to deliver. I use my background as a TV comedy writer for the BBC, ITV and C4 to write speeches full of wit and warmth.

From writing sitcom episodes, I understand storytelling; from writing sketches, I understand how to craft gags; and from directing comedy shows, I understand the unique demands of live performance. Couple this with over ten years’ experience offering speech writing services, and I can be trusted to deliver.

So, if you are in need of a great speech for a wedding or any other occasion, I would love to put my writing skills at your service.

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Professional Speech Writing Services That I Offer

Bespoke wedding speech – you fill in a questionnaire, I write you a unique speech from scratch. From the welcomes and thanks, to the jokes and the heartfelt. Edits included. 

Last-minute Best Man speech – I can turn around a written speech within 48 hours. You are just one click away from removing all that stress.

After-dinner speech – from birthdays to golf club dinners and work events, I can craft you an elegant and engaging speech that hits the spot.

Whatever your speaking role, I have tips on how to craft a knock-out speech. Everything from coming up with ideas to delivery on the day. There are also more details on the professional speech writing services I provide.

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Your Speech Starts Here… But what’s the process?

1. get in touch.

Fill out my quick contact form or give me a call to get the ball rolling

2. I'll send you out a short questionnaire

I garner the key info and stories to help bring your speech alive with humour and warmth.

3. I write your speech

I craft your speech and email it to you within the agreed deadline. ( Last-minute package also available)

4. We refine the speech

I'll make as many changes as you want to hit the perfect note.

5. You NAIL it on the day

You stand up knowing you’ve got a tightly written, well-balanced speech armed with killer gags.

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Why Choose All Write On The Night For Your Speech Writing?

  • Experience - I’ve written hundreds of wedding speeches for happy customers.
  • Reviews - my speech writing services are highly rated on Trustpilot (“Excellent”) and Hitched.
  • Referrals - lots of my work comes from returning customers and word of mouth. I’ve become people’s trusted go-to professional speech writer.
  • Focus on quality – I never take on too much work. I devote proper care and time to each speech.
  • Satisfaction – the type of speech you get has been drafted several times, so clients seldom ask for changes. However, I always offer unlimited revisions till your wedding speech is just right.
  • Flexibility – this is a tailored service - if the speech you require is mid-way between an edit and a full speech, I can do that. Just tell me what you need.
  • Approachability – whether we communicate over email or phone/video call, I love to make the process fun and stress-free.
  • Me – you get me (a great speech writer) and my unique experience, not an unknown writer.

My writing background includes sketches for BBC’s Horrible Histories and ITV’s 2DTV and Off Their Rockers. I’ve also written countless gags for BBC radio and material for The Weakest Link and The 11 O’Clock Show. As an author, my work includes The Brexit Cookbook which was featured in the national papers in Britain.

I also write greetings cards with one of my comedy ranges winning a Henry, “the Oscars of the greetings card world”.

So if you use my speech writing services, you’ll get the same focus, pride and professionalism as throughout my writing career.

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"Marc wrote a brilliant Best Man speech for me. I lost count of the wedding guests coming up to me afterwards with compliments."

Five-star review on Trustpilot, June 2024

"Marc made some absolutely brilliant and hilarious contributions."

Five-star review on Trustpilot, 11th May 2024

"Highly recommend his services if you're looking to deliver a memorable speech."

Five-star review on Trustpilot, 8th April 2024

"I've just read his first version and it's amazing! Not even going to ask for any edits as it's perfect. Thanks again!"

Five-star review on Trustpilot, 8th March 2024

"I would highly recommend Marc. Absolutely class job."

Five-star review on Trustpilot, 21st October 2023

"A beautiful speech which combined just the right a balance of humor and sincerity. The guests loved it."

Five-star review on Trustpilot, 3rd October 2023

"Marc , what can I say? Your speech for my daughter's wedding day got me a standing ovation!"

Five-star review on Trustpilot, 18th Sep 2023

"Marc has an amazing ability to turn your stories and information into a masterpiece."

Five-star review on Trustpilot, 5th Sep 2023

"The material went down brilliantly and they've rebooked me for next year. Can I consider you official gag writer for my next performance?"

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  • From the info you give me (via questionnaire, video call or phone), I craft a speech that flows from top to bottom and hits all the right notes. From great original gags to warmly sincere lines, it’ll be a speech the guests will long remember.

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  • Take your speech to the next level. You send me your draft and I can polish it, slim it down or lengthen it, add more jokes and a better flow. Why not send your speech for a free opinion now?

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  • Run out of time or inspiration? Buy the package and you’ll automatically get sent a questionnaire. Within 48 hours I send back a high-quality, original speech packed with great jokes. Just click below.

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  • My speech writing help and services have been delivered by people celebrating birthdays and household names doing award ceremonies. Whatever the occasion, I can write the speech you need. 100% discretion. No one will ever know you’ve used me.

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Speechy is globally renowned for crafting exceptional speeches. With a stellar ‘Excellent’ rating on Trustpilo t, we’re your go-to team whether you’re the groom, best man, bride, mother, father, or anyone else grabbing the wedding mic.

Our credibility?

  • We’re a team of professional comedy TV scriptwriters and comedians by trade. We’ve now helped 1,000 of speakers around the world deliver their dream speech
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We love telling great stories and each speech we create is not only unique but engaging and heartfelt. No cliches, googled-gags or wedding-waffle.

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We write for TV, radio shows & internationally renowned comedians. Top publications – from The Times to Forbes – come to us for speech advice. We regularly work with celebrities and high-profile individuals who expect the best.

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Whether you’re suffering from a blank page or a confusing mass of ideas, we’re your ultimate ally. We’ll help you find that story-telling theme that transforms your toast from a series of random thoughts into a narrative that keeps your audience hooked.

We never put words in our clients’ mouths. Instead, we make sure your speech is as unique as the person you’re paying tribute to.

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J en Glantz is the perfect bridesmaid. She’s on hand to straighten the bride’s train at the end of the aisle. She’s always got a tissue ready to dab at a wet eye during the groom’s speech. She’s right beside the bride on the morning of the wedding to help calm nerves and shower confidence. But then, she would be the perfect bridesmaid – it’s her job.

“Strangers hire me to do all the things a bridesmaid would do,” explains Jen, who runs a business quite literally called Bridesmaid for Hire . “Plus, we’re a support system for you before the wedding begins. We have pre-wedding vent sessions with clients, where they can chat through challenges and awkward situations happening with their wedding or with friends and family and we help them sort it all out. We’ll go dress shopping with clients and even attend bachelorette parties, bridal showers and engagement parties.”

Jen set up her business after being asked to be a bridesmaid at over a dozen weddings. In fact, she became so good at being a bridesmaid that a friend once remarked, “You’re like a professional or something!” A lightbulb went off . “If I could do this role for distant friends, why not do it for strangers?” she says. “That’s when I took the idea and posted an ad, offering my services as a hired bridesmaid for strangers. I received over 300 responses, built a website, and booked my first client all in 48 hours. In the past 10 years, I’ve worked hundreds of weddings as a hired bridesmaid all over the country.”

And I can understand why. When I got married three years ago, working out who to ask to be a bridesmaid became a game of mental arithmetic. I’d expected to pour angst into working out the table plan and writing my vows – I hadn’t expected the most taxing job to be picking my bridal party. In the end, I gave up and decided I wouldn’t have any. But the wider wedding landscape suggests that many people aren’t ready to “give up” – instead more are looking to hire experts to fill in the “gaps” on their big day . From hiring a professional writer to author the best man’s speech to employing “wedding mediators” to manage any disputes before or during the big day, brides and grooms want nothing less than perfection. And they’re prepared to cough up to get it.

But when it comes to hiring a bridesmaid, who’s actually doing the hiring? “We’ve worked with clients of all backgrounds and no client is ever the same,” Jen explains. “We’ve had people who are fresh out of college hire us, and people who are in their late forties and are CEOs of major companies. We’ve worked weddings that cost over £375,000 and we’ve worked weddings that cost under £7,500 and are in a backyard. In the end, we work for people who need a support system to help them get through their wedding adventure.”

Which is exactly why Mandy* hired a bridesmaid when she got married three years ago. “I’m a bit of a control freak and very particular and my friends will tell you that I can be impatient,” she tells me. “So I was worried that picking bridesmaids from my own friend group might result in them not wanting to stay part of that group by the time the wedding came around!”

I make myself available for my brides day or night. If you’re getting cold feet at 2am? You can call me. If you don’t have time to go to six different trials to find your wedding day makeup artist, I’ll go and do that research for you and whittle it down to just the best

“Hiring one just meant that I didn’t need to worry about offending friends,” she continues. “Or getting annoyed on the day if something wasn’t happening the way I wanted it to. I just wanted someone who could actively contribute to helping the day run smoothly and who would look like a seamless part of the day [herself], rather than a member of staff flapping around me.”

The real identity of Mandy’s hired bridesmaid was only known to a select few people: her husband-to-be, her mother (“she knows all my friends really well and so I would never have been able to pull the wool over her eyes”) and her best friend. “She was able to slot into the day really easily,” Mandy remembers. “She didn’t walk down the aisle but she sat in the front row and wore a bridesmaid dress. She just always seemed to be ‘there’ whenever I needed her. No one even asked me who she was because she was so good at being part of things in a low-key way.”

And though it might seem surprising that none of Mandy’s guests spotted the “imposter”, some professional bridesmaids are actually expected to be aloof. “Often, clients want to hire us and keep it a secret,” Jen says. “That’s when we put on a disguise, have a fake name and backstory, and really immerse ourselves in the person’s life.” As far as other guests know, she’s a “real bridesmaid”, and in many ways, she is: “I wear the dress, walk down the aisle, dance the night away, help the bride pee in her wedding dress, deal with family drama, and so forth.”

And for Tami, who hired her own bridesmaid back in 2020, the option to do so was the difference between having a person there on hand to support her through the day, and not having a person there at all. “I’m quite an introvert in many ways and have never really had close friends,” she tells me. “It’s not something I’m ashamed to admit but when it came to my wedding day I did feel that I would be missing out by not having a bridesmaid, so I rented one.”

‘If anyone asked, I just said she was part of the professional support I’d brought in’

The fact that her bridesmaid was being paid to be there wasn’t kept a secret from guests either. “I didn’t publicly announce it or make some sort of statement or anything,” Tami says. “But if anyone asked, I just said she was part of the professional support I’d brought in. I definitely did get a few funny looks and comments about it, particularly from my cousin, who couldn’t understand why I hadn’t just hired a traditional wedding planner rather than someone who was dressed up as a bridesmaid and had joined in with the guests. And I get why, it’s not necessarily a normal concept, but I just really liked the idea of getting to experience having a bridal party of sorts and someone who could be in a ‘friend’ role without me feeling under pressure to provide some sort of friendship back. To me, it was honestly money well spent.”

The exact amount of money you can expect to “well spend” on a bridesmaid differs according to what you might want. “I paid £1,500 in total to hire my bridesmaid and that included her sourcing a dress that fit with my colour scheme,” Tami says. Working with professional bridesmaid Jen costs upwards of £1,865. “Because the range of services we offer varies – whether you want us just to be there on the day of the wedding, or at every pre-wedding event – so does the pricing. Our packages start at £1,865 and go up from there,” she says.

If you wanted the full package though, Hannah*, a professional bridesmaid for UK brides who don’t have a network of friends or family in the country, charges an average of £5,500. “My clients now come to me via word of mouth, but when I first started I would go to wedding fairs, dressed as a bridesmaid, and hand out cards with my number on them,” she explains. “Because I attend weddings as a fully fledged guest, I don’t advertise my services online or put my name out there too much as that would undermine a bride’s faith that no one will uncover her ‘secret’.”

But the women who do manage to get hold of Hannah can expect the full “best friend” treatment. “I make myself available for my brides day or night,” she says. “If you’re getting cold feet at 2am? You can call me. If you don’t have time to go to six different trials to find your wedding day makeup artist, I’ll go and do that research for you and whittle it down to just the best.

“In all the same ways you would ask a real friend to support you through your wedding day, you can expect that from me,” she adds. “I really take the time to get to know my brides so that I can be there for them even without them having to explicitly ask. They hire me because they’re missing their friends, and so I really do want to fill that gap for them.”

‘You become so close because you’re in touch every day’

In fact, Hannah has become friends with a handful of her previous clients. “You become so close because you’re in touch every day,” she says. “They share their fears and their dreams and they feel really indebted to you for being there for them during some of their biggest and most difficult moments. Often we keep in touch.”

As I learn more about the world of bridesmaids-for-hire, I can’t help but think: would it actually save us and our friends a lot of stress and tension if we all just hired our bridal party? No arguments, no disappointment and no requirement for friends to do anything on the day other than have a good time and celebrate. Instead of shrugging off the idea of having a bridal party altogether, should I have paid to design my own?

It’s certainly not a romantic notion, but given that we’ll be marrying the love of our life, I wonder whether the thing all brides need on their wedding day is a dose of calm practicality and knowhow. Sure, get ready with your closest friends, but when it comes to the crux of the day, perhaps we should all be leaving it in the hands of the professionals…

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